The last 10 years of my life pretty much to this very moment in time have set in motion how strong and independent and free thinking person I happen to be. .
The biggest lessons i learned are.
#1 KIDNEY FAILURE SUCKS! LUPUS NEPHRITIS SUCKS ! CHEMO SUCKS.
What you REALLY believe in is far more important then what others may think of you because at the end of the day .. you are the one what truely understands who you are , how broken you may be and how to fix whats broken . No one can fix that . Only you can .
Friends come and go but those who have the time to be there at your darkest times will stay with you no matter what time zone or state line.
Doesnt matter how old you are a break up of a friendship or a relationship still sucks.
your worst critics are the people who dont like you because you arent like them.
Bullys come in all shapes and sizes and AGES !
Giving people a chance to be in your life is a gamble but if they dont accept the invite.They arent worth your time.
You cant be wonder women to everyone else until you can be wonder women for your self first .
Peoples egos/pride get the best of them.
Not all ADVICE is worth listening to.
People who haven’t dated EVER in their life’s give the crappiest advice ever.
Friendship finds you in the oddest places .
Not all men are the same .
Most people have a agenda and somehow they drag you into it because they believe that will benefit them not you.
People will say you hurt them .. for what ever reason but THAT becomes a excuse to make you feel bad.
Its ok to dance at every song you like at a concert and Its ok to cry at concerts.
You cant fix people no matter how hard you try.
you cant fix people who lack common sense
Texting one of your BFF’S at 3am is ok .
Respect isnt a one way street. If someone says you need to respect them because they are older yet they are rude to you back .. theres no universal rule that says you need to be nice back.
Having Lupus has been a blessing and a curse in its own right.
Lupus is the darkest part of who I happen to be.
Love shouldn’t be complex
People who go out if their way and make sure to make you feel like crap are people who are broken inside more than you are .
if your past wasnt a fairy tale someone will always remind you about it
You are the only person who can change you no parent or sibling can make you change . If your family doesnt believe you can be great at something .. you need to decide when is the time to go out into the world on your own and become “something”.
Older generations give the worst dating advice .LOL