What i learned from dating a nerd and what i learned about my self .

Before age 20 I was like most girls .I wanted a boyfriend who was cool and outgoing and maybe a jock and had a awesome car.

Well come age 20 i meet that cool and out going guy who happened to be a football player in high school. He was into a lot of stuff and was a huge fan of Stargate.

So being i wanted to be a “good girlfriend” I  started watching . I loved the Movie. Our Friday nights were Star gate nights . at the time  StarGate SG1 was in its 3 rd or 4th season .I become a fan . Now i wont say he turned me into a nerd . I was a nerd WAY before he come into the picture . I was in band for about 9 years did that thing they call marching band and even waited in line for Star wars Ep 1 and two  at the midnight showing in guess what  in George Lucas hometown . Which happens to me the same town i was born in .And was my home for about 5 years :0)

The latest “it” move came out we went . Iron man we went . Saw avatar not once but 3 times and even the 3d ones lol The latest alien vs predator came out  we went . Transformers came out …. Guess who went we did.   Somewhere along during that time we started playing world of Warcraft and we played together in the same guild and raided for about 3 years before he come bored with the game. He taught me EVERYTHING about gaming .I would sit for hours just watching him play and i dont remember if i asked questions NOW a days some times i watch my friend plat whatever they are playing ..and sometimes i ask questions ..I CANT HELP IT  . In the beginning he let me play need for steed underground and I LOVED IT ..i got really good at drifting lol This was way before the PS3 came out .

What dating a nerd really taught me was .I was already a gamer before supreme commander  way before boys become important .before kindergarten was a thing. I was a little girl trying to get to level 2 of super mario on the NES .But it also taught me that theres two kinds of gamers .PC gamers and console gamers and for the most part it was pretty much a given i was a pc gamer because that fit my personality the most .

It also taught me that when Im in a relationship with a fellow nerd whos also a gamer . I open my self up to new nerdy things but i stick to my guns.  I like games where i blow stuff up maybe drive in a car and run over hookers ( holy crap did i just admit i liked that ..OMG i just did ..silly GTA) that  evil is fun sometimes and that good is ok lol .

But it opened my eyes because Im the kind of Girlfriend a lot of gamer guys would love to have . Smart , funny , and a  gamer and who loves awesome music too  I guess its not a bad thing that im not bad on the eyes either lol. BUT it also taught me its ok to be a nerd and that being a nerd is much more then saying it .Living as a nerd has been awesome .

The only thing i decided ages ago when i meet the next love . Is that he likes movies  and sushi and asian food . That he loves to travel to places like san fran and likes walks to the park and last but not least LOVES CATS !! Currently not looking for a SO .. but looking for a kitten because i wanna have a army of evil black cats and maine coons kittahs