I live in a modern world .I dont live in this idea that i need to only date guys/men who are of my ethic background ( Im Mexican- American OR if you wanna get all fancy with your words and such I’m a Chicana… that means Im a Mexican-American women (smiley face) .Years ago someone decided that they had to sit me down and tell me ” MEN ONLY WANT ONE THING and that’s SEX” i was FREAKIN 15 at the time …. My mom sat next to her aunt ( im not a fan of my moms aunt .. she has a thing with being harsh .. maybe its her old age but im not 8 this harshness deal doesnt work with me at all ). and pretty much repeated them self’s for like 10 min ..TRYING to glue this shit to my brain or something lmao. I did the eye rolling like a typical 15 year old and tried not to laugh ( really im not joking here at all ) I even went as far as saying ” *YEAH I KNOW GUYS JUST WANT SEX“.. just to make them feel better about this ..The smart ass part of ME was the reason i wanted to laugh ..oh poor 15 year old me
so since that day any love and relationship advice from ALMOST everyone including my own MOM…i have taken with a grain a salt .
So a few weeks ago ” why don’t you date Mexican guys” HOLY SHIT ..REALLY DID YOU JUST GO THERE ?
my vague answer was in the form of this” I have never been attracted to Mexican guys.. I haven’t found one that didn’t remind me of the men in my family” ..I mean it makes sense . I think so .
So my dating preface isnt going to change much unless i decide it needs to change .I dont think it should matter to the older people in my family at all. Who i date or who ever i end up marrying is my business .
What i really learned from this or comments in general is people are going to talk no matter how hard you try to get them to dig them selfs a hole and that sometimes your best choices in life will be a joke to others and no LITTLE OLD LADY can make me change my mind….AND that dating out side of your ethic background is FREAKING AWESOME! in my case it would be showing them the power of AWESOME MEXICAN FOOD!!
* I know that’s not 100% true especially now as a adult
So have you had someone question who you date ?